View Full Version : Do you feel ashamed looking at hentai?
hwillis8
12-27-2005, 11:13 PM
Sometimes whenever I start looking at hentai I feel like i'm doing something wrong :( . What do ya'll think?
ribbons
12-28-2005, 12:48 AM
i have never felt that it was wrong looking for hentai.
but don t feel bad. i think its just me. i am lacking the emotions shame and embarassment. so of course i wouldn t feel them while searching for hentai, now would i? but i think even if i did have them, i wouldn t feel them.
unless your looking for loli. then you should be feeling wrong, bad and dirty! but, again, thats just me :p
Donsai
12-28-2005, 01:45 AM
Sometimes, but then I just remember a huge chunk of a world economic superpower (i.e. Japan) also looks at it. Then I feel okay about it. :D
Covvie
12-28-2005, 01:53 AM
When I was like ten, I was for a while.
orisa
12-28-2005, 02:44 AM
It's one of my interests (HGames, that is). I don't feel ashamed for following an interest.
SRTargets
12-28-2005, 03:11 AM
Hentai is great, it's a slight diversion from porn. Some are quite good romance titles. I'm a sucker for romance. I dont actually feel ashamed cause I know a lot of people watch the stuff, you'se guys included.
combatross
12-28-2005, 04:53 AM
ummm.... why? Do you feel wrong looking at any porn? I don't, pornagraphy is there for a reason, and any type(long as it is legal) is okay in in my book to look at, after all, that is what is for. Hentai is a form of porn, and that is what it is for.
Karis Fra Mauro
12-28-2005, 08:24 AM
Hmm, yeah I can't really get into watching la blue girl or anything with someone else around :( Always annoys me when I have a guy I know who understands computers save me from the latest virus or crisis or whatever, first thing he does is rummage through my smut. But aside from making a public display of it, I'm fine with being a pervert. Wouldn't be posting here if that weren't the case ;)
zephyrantes88
12-28-2005, 08:40 AM
Nope :D why should i ?! :cool:
but see it with someone else do make me felt like that... :o but if i remember my girlfriend say the i shouldn't lookin' at porn n hentai anymore, then i feel contradictory.... my heart says "give it to her :( ", my lust said "keep on goin', goin', goin', n goin'!!! :p . But never felt ashamed, no matter what the genre is.... :cool:
"All sexual behaviour is normal, what's abnormal is avoiding them... the differences is only matter of preferences" .....a pshychiatrist of 21st century. Some might agree some might not.... but don't flame me for it ;)
MrWiseman
12-28-2005, 04:20 PM
Never felt ashamed about hentai (or porn for that matter), I think it's awesome
FullMetalYzak
12-28-2005, 04:51 PM
used to feel ashamed and even guilty, but after watching tons and tons of it, I've become numb(heck even softporn doesn't turn me on nowadays)
willieload
12-28-2005, 07:40 PM
Well i never was ashamed for watching hentai or even admiting to it but some of my firends make it seem like im sick (actually mostly all of them are girls) for watching it but i try not to listen to it but at times i wonder if i should feel ashamed for looking at it but than agian it's not like it's herting anyone and i don't watch the rape stuff.
so NO i don't feel ashamed for looking at it and those people that say it's sick and wrong should be glad were not watching bestiality and any of that other really crazy shit that feeks me out and is actually eligal
animeking210
12-28-2005, 07:42 PM
I think its a bit late for that.
personally I like the stories.
more to the point i love the comedies. they are espically great.
ggfc2
12-28-2005, 08:02 PM
I don't know what I can say ... I watch hentai and that should be the end of it, but a large percentage of my freinds don't like the stuff and call it sick and disgusting...
icewirm
12-28-2005, 08:05 PM
as far as I remember I have never felt ashamed for watching any kind ok hentai, I think is just natural, like, you know, breathing?
combatross
12-28-2005, 09:57 PM
See I never felt wrong or guilty about it myself, once my roomate caught me watching some and really railed on me for it. (Till I found out he liked porn stories on a free site with some disturbing stuff) It's porn, plain and simple with animated characters so nobody it hurt, why shouldn't it be okay? People who watch porn with real people watch some weird shit like scat, bestiality, golden showers, etc. Now I find that shit ****ed up, but if that is your thing and it is legal, thats not my problem. In Real porn these days all I see is fake tits, fake acting, and fake personalites. Of course hentai is the same, but you can't really tell with animated characters, so that you can often be more emersed in the story and hence the explicit acts.
MrWiseman
12-29-2005, 06:33 AM
large percentage of my freinds don't like the stuff and call it sick and disgusting
Their loss.
TheAwakener
12-29-2005, 07:57 AM
I don
berserkfury101
12-29-2005, 08:03 AM
i dont really get ashamed but every one has to admit that you wont do it infront of other people so thier is still a small level of embarassment about doing it just like masturbating and having sex your not going to just do it infront of everyone cuz your a little embarassed about the fact you do it and would prefer to keep the act private
CrimsonFlare
12-29-2005, 09:31 AM
I enjoy watching it. There is no shame. Just think about all the people who watch things that are 100x's more perverted. Not to use that as an excuse to liking it, but just imagine what those people would say if you asked them the same question.
P.S. - IceWirm That car is F'ing A. Awesome Pic!
hwillis8
12-30-2005, 03:50 PM
true....but do you think that it affects your relationships with other people? Do you ever find it difficult to distingush between fanasty and reality? I've found that in the bible (yeah, i'm bringing that up...sorry...kinda devout....) that even thinking of sexual acts between others is commiting adultery, not to mention girls call you "pervert" all the time.....
TheDevil21
12-30-2005, 11:14 PM
Not really. At first I did but now I just enjoy it.
Tsubomi
12-30-2005, 11:52 PM
*Shudders some* Had the 'click the red spider' add when I first came to this response box, I hate spiders... >_> I hit refresh.
Anyway actually on topic now...
Personally I sort of do, but I think it's because society has implanted this message in our heads that enjoying any portrayel of sex is bad. Or is it just religious people that implanted that? Well either way... society is like "You're a perv!" and such so I feel like I'm doing something wrong. But I still watch it sometimes regardless... I just feel bad to begin with and end up turning it on and off about ten times before I'm able to get myself to fully watch it. :o
Not to mention I'm an absolute wuss to begin with. :p I get emberrassed really easily so sometimes I don't even know why I watch hentai when I know it makes me feel emberrassed. Just call me a freak personally... :rolleyes:
Plus I'm kind of afraid my husband will see me watching it and get the wrong idea, which is why I tend to watch it when he's not home haha.
hwillis8
12-31-2005, 04:39 PM
maybe that kind of thing will turn him on...lol
Skizzem
12-31-2005, 04:55 PM
I'm ashamed.
Karrot
12-31-2005, 09:03 PM
I feel completely ok with it on a personal level, but when it comes to my friends knowing about it, they just hate it. Sometimes they tease me for supposedly liking it, as it is bad, but i just admit. Usually they don't bother me about it to much. But im wondering how you guys got your friends to accept this. Or something like accepting what someone likes comes with a good friendship, and what i have with these people isn't really a true friendship. Meh whatever.
hwillis8
12-31-2005, 09:41 PM
it depends on the person. I got two friends that know and make fun of me for it, but they don't tell other people about it. One of my "friends" found out, though, and used that aganist me, but hes very insecure since he doesn't make good grades and depends on other people for his happiness. Just tell em straight that you dont like the teasing and tell them not to tell other people about it. If they really are your friends, thats the least that they could do, ya know?
Karrot
12-31-2005, 10:39 PM
it depends on the person. I got two friends that know and make fun of me for it, but they don't tell other people about it. One of my "friends" found out, though, and used that aganist me, but hes very insecure since he doesn't make good grades and depends on other people for his happiness. Just tell em straight that you dont like the teasing and tell them not to tell other people about it. If they really are your friends, thats the least that they could do, ya know?
:) Thanks for the help. This is some useful info.
hwillis8
12-31-2005, 11:32 PM
no prob. So back to the pervert issue....
entr0py
01-01-2006, 01:22 AM
I think it largely depends on your upbringing and your age. Though I wasn't religious growing up, I did grow up in a fairly repressed and conservative culture (Utah). And as a youth I thought that sex and desire were something to be embarrased by. If that is your starting point, it will take you a while to get comfortable with sexuality in general. But eventually it will truely sink in that this is human, and not in any sense sinful or harmful. If you were to go by the bible, eating shrimp is an abomination, and a man should never cut his hair or his beard. So even with religion as a base, you need to think for yourself and discover your own ethics and morality. Desire is as natural as hunger, what you do with it determines if it's shameful or not.
Sparda3011
01-01-2006, 01:43 AM
No,not really.Should I?
Ashamed!? Are you kidding? I feel damn proud. I'm a collector of perversions of
sorts, always on the lookout for more perversions to add to mine. :D
Though it's not like I would tell my mother that I jerk off to cartoon characters
all day long. :D
If your friends can't accept that you like hentai or anything else, for that
matter, then maybe you should be on the lookout for more mature friends.
"All sexual behaviour is normal, what's abnormal is avoiding them... the differences is only matter of preferences" .....a pshychiatrist of 21st century. Some might agree some might not.... but don't flame me for it ;)
I totally agree with this; I just hate people who deny, even to themselves, what
they really like.
hwillis8
01-01-2006, 10:44 AM
Thanks, Entr0py, that was an exellent point. B00lean, funny, funny.
Riven
01-01-2006, 10:52 AM
Not really. I mean, I think it is for everyone at first, but then you get used to it after awhile and then you can fully enjoy it. :P
I do still get that feeling if I stumble upon certain types of hentai that I don't like due to ethical reasons, however.
Taplo
01-01-2006, 12:35 PM
I watch hentai because I want to. I don't feel ashamed following my urges. Well.. at least not regarding to hentai. :D
hwillis8
01-01-2006, 09:23 PM
Riven, I totally agree. I can't stand bondage (no offense to bondage fans) or anything that involves total rape and violence. Do you guys look at hentai monthly, weekly, daily, or hourly?
masterd787
01-01-2006, 09:30 PM
Nope sometime I even think of start doing my own hentai.
Ecko007
01-02-2006, 12:17 AM
no,i never feel ashame i feel proud.
Murrowboy
01-02-2006, 12:38 AM
@Zeph
too much emtion!!! HELP!!!! I feel like a women!!!
DoujinX
01-02-2006, 04:52 AM
Ashamed!? Are you kidding? I feel damn proud. I'm a collector of perversions of
sorts, always on the lookout for more perversions to add to mine. :D
Though it's not like I would tell my mother that I jerk off to cartoon characters
all day long. :D
If your friends can't accept that you like hentai or anything else, for that
matter, then maybe you should be on the lookout for more mature friends.
I totally agree with this; I just hate people who deny, even to themselves, what
they really like.
I agree with u 100 % hell no not ashamed to look hentai it very enjoyable. It almost a hobby for me now.
DoujinX
01-02-2006, 04:55 AM
Riven, I totally agree. I can't stand bondage (no offense to bondage fans) or anything that involves total rape and violence. Do you guys look at hentai monthly, weekly, daily, or hourly?
bare min. of 1hrs every day and if I nothing else better to now 3-4 yrs a day.
MrWiseman
01-02-2006, 05:11 AM
Do you guys look at hentai monthly, weekly, daily, or hourly?Daily, hentai or pr0n for about an hour; 20 minutes if I don't have time; 3 hours if I don't have anything to do.
MapleSky
01-02-2006, 05:12 AM
its great fun watching it with friends haha
hwillis8
01-02-2006, 01:56 PM
Woah...I don;t know about all that...Unless your friends are extremely hot supermodels....
KawaiiServantBoy
01-02-2006, 03:18 PM
Possibly when i was 15 i felt ashamed, and if i did it probably lasted only one minute before i clicked away.
Porn/Hentai has been with there since the dawn of man. No point in losing tradition. lol.
uhhhh.... about 1-2 hours a day. But after that my mind loses interest, does that happen to you guys/gals?
Skizzem
01-02-2006, 03:34 PM
I'm ashamed.
Quoting myself.
I am ashamed and my shamefulness has prevented me from admitting to my friends and family members that I'm into hentai.
Tigerofthewind
01-02-2006, 05:42 PM
Nope. Asking if someone is ashamed looking at hentai is asking if people are ashamed of looking at regular pornography. Everybody does it at one point or another.
Although I'll never admit to telling anyone I know about it. I'm not even admitting to most friends that I watch anime in general.
MrWiseman
01-02-2006, 06:12 PM
uhhhh.... about 1-2 hours a day. But after that my mind loses interest, does that happen to you guys/gals?Only for a while, then I'm horny again ^^ Well, if I do use hentai too much, I get tired of it for a few days and replace it with real pr0n or sex stories.
'm not even admitting to most friends that I watch anime in general.Why? There isn't anything bad about it, nothing to be ashamed of.
Canaan
01-02-2006, 06:58 PM
Ashamed? Hell no. There's no reason to be, at least for me anyways.
HezaChan
01-02-2006, 07:06 PM
I don't feel ashamed looking at hentai at all. Its fantasy, and there are things wich can never happen in real life in it and it turns me on. In cartoons anything is possible.
--but I don't agree with Loli or Shota, simply b/c its kinda scary to me, I understand not all Lolicons/Shotacons are pedifiles, but I still wouldn't want it to lead to it. I see it not harmful if it only is in anime form and fantasy. It should NEVER be acted upon.
Soran
01-02-2006, 09:18 PM
How can you be a huge fan of Unagi from Popotan game(as you say in your profile) and at the same time "don't agree with Loli"? >.<
Would you ever meet her if loli hentai games never existed?
What do you mean by "I still wouldn't want it to lead to it"? Should something be done about it since it can(?) lead to it? May be make it illegal everywhere?
No offence, but your post makes me quite depressed...
HezaChan
01-03-2006, 08:28 AM
How can you be a huge fan of Unagi from Popotan game(as you say in your profile) and at the same time "don't agree with Loli"? >.<
Would you ever meet her if loli hentai games never existed?
What do you mean by "I still wouldn't want it to lead to it"? Should something be done about it since it can(?) lead to it? May be make it illegal everywhere?
No offence, but your post makes me quite depressed...
There is no Hentai of Unagi in the game, just ecchi, like panty shots, and 1 nipple, BUT NO direct contact. I DO like hentai games don't get me wrong, but I don't play it cuz its Loli. The reason I wanted the game is cuz I like hentai and Popotan. And yeah I would have known about her cuz I saw the anime first.
I don't think it should be illegal cuz its just drawings and not the real thing. I just think that if a person harms a child b/c of it, THAT PERSON should be "taken care of". Some people claim that they "love" the girl, and that its not just a sexual interest. But what happens when that little girl grows up? Would they not care anymore?
I can see an attraction to younger women, like 16-17 b/c media protrays them in sexual ways, and even then they are sexualy interested. But young girls can be easy taken advantage of, and confuse love for other things. That's just my opinion. Sorry to make you depressed over it.
Soran
01-03-2006, 09:57 AM
And yeah I would have known about her cuz I saw the anime first.What I mean is - there was a loli hentai game first and it was quite successful/popular. If not for this game, we probably wouldn't ever see Popotan anime.
Anyway I'm even not so fond of the hentai elements of Popotan game. May be it's because I like Mii and Halko too much... Just like you, I watched the anime first and I played the game only a little. I hope someone will translate it one day. I guess, it would be just too frustrating to play the raw(not translated) version because I'd interpret everything wrong. I've seen many Popotan CGs though (mostly ecchi, just few hentai).
In general (non-hentai) anime is more important to me than hentai, be it loli or not. But we can learn from Popotan that loli hentai can to give birth to wonderful things, not necessary hentai. Thus it can't be so evil, can it?
I don't think it should be illegal cuz its just drawings and not the real thing. I just think that if a person harms a child b/c of it, THAT PERSON should be "taken care of". Some people claim that they "love" the girl, and that its not just a sexual interest. But what happens when that little girl grows up? Would they not care anymore?I talk only about anime(/manga/games), I don't think we'd disagree about anything concerning RL relations between adults and children.
But you asked a very good question. Indeed, what happens when she grows up? Fortunately an anime girl will never grow up ^_^
If you can fall in love with an anime character, if you can be with him/her in your fantasy world, you don't need to be your RL-self there in this world either. That's what the most loli haters (not you^^) fail to understand. They think: "Wow, this man (or this woman) imagines him(her)self raping little (anime) children. That's pretty sick!"
But the truth is - you can be anyone and anything in your dream world... A tree, a sunset, even this loli/moe character you fell in love with. And as for the hardcore stuff that scares the most people (and even you) - I don't think that it's pure projection of hidden desire to dominate. It could be just as much a projection of own pain and disgust about the world we live in and what it turns us into. Not a true resolution, but at least a some way to face your inner pain so that you can forget it for a while... A true resolution... for some people there isn't any.
~ ...but now how can I fly away without being stained by this world where ugliness spreads? ~
NightviSion
01-03-2006, 11:05 AM
Now I feel bad about myself for wasting youth. SOMEONE KILL ME NOW! :(
I feel ashamed of many things I do in my life, but watching/playing hentai is not one of them. :p
As long as it's something you enjoy, and bringing no harm to others, there's nothing wrong in doing it. :)
aznraynor23
01-04-2006, 11:01 PM
I dont feel ashamed of watching hentai or porn. There is nothing wrong with porn or hentai, so i feel no shame in viewing them. Now doing something illegal like stealing would make me feel ashamed, but watching porn or hentai wouldn't because i dont find anything shameful about watching porn or hentai.
i only feel shame when i let someone down, but with hentai never.
and about times. there are weeks when i do nothing more but organize & watch my pretty collection. I need every DoA image&doujin&game&figurine&etc.
i keep on collecting hentai and i rest when i die.
Alisha
01-07-2006, 11:13 AM
no. hentai is art especially when it involves 2 females >.>
Lamito
01-07-2006, 04:28 PM
i feel a bti odd
doo doo doo...
hentai is awsome. naturally, i have no shame looking at naked people performing the reproductive ritual.
PhoenXIII
01-07-2006, 09:57 PM
feel good for watching hentai people,watching the real thing isnt at all good.... since sumtimes it exposes the girls who just need money, and have no other choice
eh. but there ARE those who do it--purely for pleasure. :rolleyes:
huoyuenake
01-08-2006, 02:03 AM
..why do i have to feel ashamed..??
i mean dat all these hentai things we'll do one day..and i cant wait to do dat..lol
Ajizzell
01-09-2006, 06:15 AM
only when it hits me that i can never have the girls
but by that time im already deeply satisfied. *wink wink*
may be i should say i will feel ashamed if i don't look at hentai!!!!!!!!!!
HAHAHAHAHAH!!!!!!!!!!! :D
Kouji
01-16-2006, 08:40 PM
may be i should say i will feel ashamed if i don't look at hentai!!!!!!!!!!
HAHAHAHAHAH!!!!!!!!!!! :D
zomg *gives piles of H Animes*
i dont think anyone should be ashamed of looking at Hentai :p
xidainia
01-17-2006, 08:57 PM
Don't feel ashamed unless while searching I might come accross something I think is strange then yeah I do feal ashamed but otherwise no man HENTAI RULES!! and you may quote me on that anyday.
Oh Dae Su
01-17-2006, 10:50 PM
i. . love. . my. .hentai o.o
Ahura
01-22-2006, 01:45 PM
no, why should i...
YoungNastyMan
01-28-2006, 02:19 PM
nope there is no guilt in hentai
Being ashamed by watching hentai?
In my dictionary there's no such word as "shame",so I think I'm not and I think that nobody should be ashamed about it:D
Tares
01-29-2006, 03:23 PM
tbh, when i saw my 1st hentai i couldn't stop laughing... dunno why really -_-
now i find it very enjoyable ^_^
HongFire
01-30-2006, 01:02 AM
I never feel ashamed. Why should i be? I like what i like and i am being honest to myself and to others. It's not like i am breaking the law. :D
Silex
01-30-2006, 02:06 PM
It makes sense to feel bad. I was just talking about this with a good friend of mine and she doesn't understand why guys like to look at fake girls. I think it's okay as long as you realize that they are drawn to perfection for a reason and have tiny waists, big breasts, and are very proportional to fit a stereotype. Something we can't do with live action. If you can differentiate from what is real and what isn't (and probably explain it to someone who catches you watching it as well) then you are ok !!
hwillis8
01-31-2006, 09:40 AM
I dunno, from what I have read (since i'm trying to be a devout christian) when you look at pornography (porno-naked bodies grapy-anything in photography form) you are sinning aganist your body and is thus wrong. Do you guys think that looking at hentai isn't wrong, since it is not actual people that take part in sex?:confused:
doyrena
01-31-2006, 10:01 AM
well i dont know, to be honest, i prefer seeing this stuff alone. embarrest? yes. feel strange? yes. feeling good? YES!!!
Psygoli
02-01-2006, 11:43 AM
Nope,I don't feel ashamed when looking hentai.I have been rather lucky to get friends who also watch hentai so they don't think I am weird or anything.I think it's natural and it's part of me so nothing to worry about :D
SL2Luv
02-05-2006, 12:17 AM
i think at first for awhile ... it felt weird ... cus every1 around was checkin out REAL porn n i was into cartoons ... LOL but not anymore now ... hentai is AWSOME! plus i see it more of an artistic style n i wouldnt mind end up doing sumthing in this field! porn is one of the biggest distrutors in the world
peacius
02-05-2006, 02:05 AM
meh, i dont feel like im doing anything wrong, i just feel like id rather be watching real girls and whatnot. plus, ill take straight up anime over hentai any day...
bloodhand
02-08-2006, 04:14 PM
Being ashamed of WATCHING HENTAI?
Hell... I wrote a complete Hentai story myself. (In German, though, and I don't have it anymore) So why should I be ashamed of watching it?
Somehow, I love Hentai even more than real porn (Could depend on my interests which aren't possible in real life).
Of course, I wouldn't watch it in public, though. Sitting in a bus with a hard-on is no place to be.:D
ushiwakamaru
02-08-2006, 07:49 PM
Not me. Not ashamed. Still have to depend on personal belives i guess.
soulkeeper60
02-08-2006, 08:19 PM
Im only ashamed if my parents catch me so im never ashamed
YamiSouru MkIII
02-08-2006, 08:35 PM
same here soulkeeper60, dont feel guilty or anything seeing hentai, nor loli, nor futanari, nor something like incestuous mangas, but in public show my interest in loli, and dont hide it, or that i compare myself with Onizuka.:o.
but i dont know, when my parents are aroun, i feel somewhat, inhibited, and cant be as open as i am with that, of course im capable of saying, "yeah, if i had a bomb, i could blast their asses", or "i will burn them till they are crispy and crunchy), all this coments are refered against people, and say thing like " wish i had a gattling gun, to shred them all to pieces, those ***********), but when it comes to sex, i dont feel too confortable, with my parents around. aside from that, people that i see as parents too, like the mom of a friend of mine, some of my teachers from my high school, the principal of the school i studied my last years, aside from that, im really open, and dont care if they call me sadic, or perv, heheh, i like it, but the girls like to call me like that.
dont feel ashamed of doing what you like, dont worry, be happy. i think.
Krendall
02-21-2006, 04:16 PM
The only time I've been ashamed about it was when it was time to reveal my fondness for it (as well as porn in general) to my fiancee. Since she was cool with it, I got no worries.
coughargh
02-22-2006, 04:31 AM
i do feel ashame......
maybe hentai girls are true cute to be true, still wandering when to let my partner know my interest ......
DexVil
02-22-2006, 04:39 AM
Nope No shame HERE....
just sit back and enjoy the RiDe>>>>> GO Hentai Go Hentai HoooRayyyy + yey.
Shame comes when maby someone is watching you watch Hentai or porn.
YamiInju
02-22-2006, 06:14 AM
@Soran
loli/moe? er whats moe? master of enterteainment? seriously. moe?
I think it largely depends on your upbringing and your age. Though I wasn't religious growing up, I did grow up in a fairly repressed and conservative culture (Utah). And as a youth I thought that sex and desire were something to be embarrased by. If that is your starting point, it will take you a while to get comfortable with sexuality in general. But eventually it will truely sink in that this is human, and not in any sense sinful or harmful. If you were to go by the bible, eating shrimp is an abomination, and a man should never cut his hair or his beard. So even with religion as a base, you need to think for yourself and discover your own ethics and morality. Desire is as natural as hunger, what you do with it determines if it's shameful or not.
you're misunderstanding me thinks. cutting hair and beard is wrong, in the context of where ever you read it, and in that book only. its like saying computers are bad coz they're not in the Bible, which is misinterpretation IMO. also sex is not bad. God created man, and his organs and bodily fluids. to say that sex is wrong (the act and the organs) is wrong. its just that i know a lotta you guys will disagree, but SEX IS GOOD...in marriage only.
you had sex with your wife all night long, good for you and your wife, nice going stud. you had a quickie with yer 18 yr old girlfriend, immoral but legal. your 12 yr old sister gave ya a bj? immoral, illegal, incestual, and generally wrong. you snuffed the life outta a 60yr old grandma while ********** in her ********** which ya ****** outta her ******* ***** and ya reached orgasm...wrong in so many ways and so many levels, hell will spit ya out, then take ya in again. maybe.
I dunno, from what I have read (since i'm trying to be a devout christian) when you look at pornography (porno-naked bodies grapy-anything in photography form) you are sinning aganist your body and is thus wrong. Do you guys think that looking at hentai isn't wrong, since it is not actual people that take part in sex?
you haven't strayed too far me thinks, but leave now in case you become a pillar of salt. seriously, trying to become devout, well you should be with other people trying to become devout. ya dig me? this isn't a place for ya. its generally wrong to be immoral. and while looking at hentai i doubt you'd be thinking about something morally outstanding. you'd probably be thinking about ****ing, or some variant of it. you may argue, its not real people, well its still immoral. its still wrong. now its your soul, you decide for yourself.
as for me, ashamed only if and when my female relatives ever find out. other than that, not really. all my acquaintances and friends seem to be into it. a classmate recently leeched some from me, i filled his 40gig hd and it wasn't even the tip of my collection of hentai videos. there's dojin, games, manga and stuff. i got 90% of it here in HF! :D although i did start out ashamed, WHEN I WAS IN ****ING ELEMENTARY! then i sorta got used to it, like all sin, it gets easier with time.
well this may be news to some of you guys, but in case ya didn't notice, hentai is immoral. if you're ok with that, then...mwahahahahahahaHAHAHAHA *cough* *cough* ehrm, ehrm... well good for you. or is that bad... well depends on whose side yer on...
fluid
02-22-2006, 06:33 AM
I'm not ashamed... but I prefer to watch it alone :p
Kikoshi-san
02-23-2006, 05:49 AM
Hmm i'm not ashamed but i'll never tell friends i guess XD
Shamensyth
02-23-2006, 06:54 AM
I don't feel ashamed...
Sometimes me and my friends watch it together. And way back, me and my Gf also watched Hentai together. She also like playing H-Games even when I'm there. And it's fun competing with friends in playing H-Games to see who get's the best ending or gets the girl first. :D
hwillis8
02-23-2006, 01:09 PM
@Soran
loli/moe? er whats moe? master of enterteainment? seriously. moe?
you're misunderstanding me thinks. cutting hair and beard is wrong, in the context of where ever you read it, and in that book only. its like saying computers are bad coz they're not in the Bible, which is misinterpretation IMO. also sex is not bad. God created man, and his organs and bodily fluids. to say that sex is wrong (the act and the organs) is wrong. its just that i know a lotta you guys will disagree, but SEX IS GOOD...in marriage only.
you had sex with your wife all night long, good for you and your wife, nice going stud. you had a quickie with yer 18 yr old girlfriend, immoral but legal. your 12 yr old sister gave ya a bj? immoral, illegal, incestual, and generally wrong. you snuffed the life outta a 60yr old grandma while ********** in her ********** which ya ****** outta her ******* ***** and ya reached orgasm...wrong in so many ways and so many levels, hell will spit ya out, then take ya in again. maybe.
you haven't strayed too far me thinks, but leave now in case you become a pillar of salt. seriously, trying to become devout, well you should be with other people trying to become devout. ya dig me? this isn't a place for ya. its generally wrong to be immoral. and while looking at hentai i doubt you'd be thinking about something morally outstanding. you'd probably be thinking about ****ing, or some variant of it. you may argue, its not real people, well its still immoral. its still wrong. now its your soul, you decide for yourself.
as for me, ashamed only if and when my female relatives ever find out. other than that, not really. all my acquaintances and friends seem to be into it. a classmate recently leeched some from me, i filled his 40gig hd and it wasn't even the tip of my collection of hentai videos. there's dojin, games, manga and stuff. i got 90% of it here in HF! :D although i did start out ashamed, WHEN I WAS IN ****ING ELEMENTARY! then i sorta got used to it, like all sin, it gets easier with time.
well this may be news to some of you guys, but in case ya didn't notice, hentai is immoral. if you're ok with that, then...mwahahahahahahaHAHAHAHA *cough* *cough* ehrm, ehrm... well good for you. or is that bad... well depends on whose side yer on...
Well, I know I should, but I have quite perverse tendencies. If a girl met me once, she would automaticlly assume that I am a pervert. So that kinda makes it difficult to stop. I feel ya on the individual morals thing; I personality think of what others want rather than what I want, and that makes my life a bit stressful and depressing. I also have low self-esstem when it comes to other people, so that could be why I feel ashamed when my roommate sees the porno on my computer. Hell, perversion is just a part of me. I'm just gonna accept it lol :biggrin:
kuruse45
03-02-2006, 07:41 PM
i have thought about kind of thing once
inj my opinion watching hentai can be "conscience burning" but it just depends on your perpective
in my case i just watch hentai moderately so i dont feel much ashamed
joylock
03-02-2006, 08:26 PM
Hell no I am never ashamed of anythig I do!
Shin Ogre
03-03-2006, 07:03 AM
Hahaha! I feel nothing, all i care is the art skill. I prefer good body shape hentai drawing or anim. :grin:
Sturmvogel Prime
03-03-2006, 08:47 PM
I Feel nothing bad.
I Consider it like an excellent art, not like a nasty stuff.
terumi56
03-04-2006, 12:18 AM
>_> i draw hentai >_> i live hentai >_> i breathe hentai.... j/k well i do and can draw some but im too freakin impatient to bother inking scanning photoshopin the damn stuff so it never gets further than sketches. amazing what art classes can help you with >_> ahem anyway if you feel ashamed maybe its just a guilty conscience weighing on you say from your parents/religion/morals etc... every person sees things differently . im sure the guys who come up with this stuff may even feel some sort of shame.
i honestly think it takes more for someone to actually do the actual voice acting/ creation of the series to hold onto that shame or rather they just accept it as work or something they enjoy doing so in that sense there maybe nothing wrong with it to them. If it bothers you that much then you could just stop.
Gin03
03-04-2006, 06:57 AM
I dont feel ashamed, but I usaually watch it when Im alone.
Syinide89
03-05-2006, 04:42 AM
i use to but...its all good now :kakashi:
Maybe after I'm done fapping, but nope.
Not at all.
Bartman
03-06-2006, 01:24 PM
Sometimes. ._.;
LArsson
03-06-2006, 02:08 PM
nope, I have a friend that talks aloud about hentai and some other stuff.
S&T Kawaii Love
03-06-2006, 02:16 PM
I feel so ashamed.... NOT.
yojimboslashes
03-06-2006, 02:50 PM
:neko: :kakashi: why should i be ashamed of looking at hentai lol if you like something stand up and be counted !
Thyran
03-06-2006, 02:55 PM
Nope probably because no one knows. ;P
yojimboslashes
03-06-2006, 03:08 PM
Nope probably because no one knows. ;P
even if they did its got nothing to do with them hehe =P
Necroe
03-09-2006, 03:37 AM
ashamed..not really but its not something i'd talk to my friends about...although the same applies to porn even tho we know we both watch it :P
CHRONOMASTER
03-09-2006, 03:49 AM
Ashamed? It would be abnormal not to look at hentai. http://www.keiichianimeforever.com/boards/html/emoticons/ph34r.gif
oppai_suki
03-09-2006, 03:59 AM
nope. Never did I felt ashamed watching it.
Ph8te
03-11-2006, 10:13 AM
I do feel guilty when I don't see enough!
Come on, Hentai is Adult entertainment and fantasy.
Can't take the heat? Go get some good Ramen Noodles :)
Sphie
03-11-2006, 10:16 AM
I think those who should be ashamed would be those who look down on hentai, because they obviously have bad taste :p
mastur3
03-18-2006, 01:42 PM
I just love hentai :) - so why be ashamed ?!?
wintypes
03-18-2006, 01:52 PM
Be ashamed when you get caught with Hentai!! :)
playvltk04
03-18-2006, 02:11 PM
Be ashamed when you get caught with Hentai!! :)
Yep and hearing the stuff like: "Shame you're, adult with kid's joy" :neko:
wintypes
03-18-2006, 02:20 PM
How true... my parents do think this way (not about hentai (they don't even know its existance), but about manga and anime in general :P)
Graffitix
03-18-2006, 11:24 PM
No one knows I am so perverted(Hey,what can I say?)So,not really.Not that I would care anyways.,
mordecaix2052
03-19-2006, 01:44 AM
If you do something in life...be it good bad or perverted, you do it because you decideed to do it...or something like that...so why do you feel ashamed about it?
Semyaza
03-21-2006, 08:55 AM
No, not really..I mean, I draw hentai as well, so..you know. I can't feel all -that- bad if I also go along and draw it ^_^
moogleking
03-21-2006, 09:11 AM
People watch porn, so there's nothing wrong with hentai. Hentai is more better and sexier than porn for me :P
Choppy
03-21-2006, 09:14 AM
Why should anyone feel ashamed about what they do for fun? IMO, if you're truly ashamed of something, you would stop doing it and better yourself in whatever areas you feel lacking in.
Yaggath
03-22-2006, 02:47 AM
Why do i need to feel ashamed?...there's nothing wrong looking at hentai
omega shinson
03-22-2006, 06:01 AM
I feel wrong just not looking at hentai.
Otase
03-23-2006, 02:41 AM
I dont feel ashamed of it but i have my privacy of course...
ForteAnly
03-23-2006, 03:29 PM
Yeah, there's nothing to be ashamed about when it comes to watching Hentai. Unless you feel gulty for all of the stuff that goes on H-animes like rapes and stuff. I'm not ashamed when it comes to watching hentai.:grin:
Keiseita
03-23-2006, 05:15 PM
Shame's not an issue when I'm alone or with good friends.
What is an issue for me is that I bought a PSP and an Ipod, and I wont take them to work, or public places with me cause I'd be nervous if people found my H stuff in them.
I don't like to discuss my interests with a lot of people cause usually they don't understand, and they (I think) will think less of me...
FlameX
03-26-2006, 06:39 PM
No. because I believe that looking is a natural thing.
hwillis8
03-26-2006, 07:09 PM
Shame's not an issue when I'm alone or with good friends.
What is an issue for me is that I bought a PSP and an Ipod, and I wont take them to work, or public places with me cause I'd be nervous if people found my H stuff in them.
I don't like to discuss my interests with a lot of people cause usually they don't understand, and they (I think) will think less of me...
Yeah, my ipod has a bunch of h-manga...One angel blade episode (the one with the pink haired girl)..One viper GTS episode...A Please Teacher! Blowjob video..A Bible Black origins video (the one where that HOT HOT HOT HOT HOT HOT HOT HOT [damn it where is my ipod] Hot girl gets raped by the devil...) and a few dojins. I once looked at it in the car when my sister and my mom went to the mall, and I had to hide my Ipod and try to turn it off before they found it. and these girls that somehow knew me passed by the car and I had to hide, so that they would'nt see the porn. Im an addict. :kakashi:
Madake
03-30-2006, 08:40 PM
never. i draw my own hentai in CLASS
its great.
people love my hentai
i love hentai
its a beautiful world
The Ultimate Archangel
04-05-2006, 03:12 AM
You do feel a bit of remorse but, if you can control your tendencies, that'll pass.
:D
terumi56
04-05-2006, 04:32 AM
obviously i dont give since my drawings tend to lean that way >_>() see rikku/yuna pic in yuri section of gallery.... anyway yeah i dont really give a crap XD..... btw it is natural to want to look O_o curiosity yes... wait i already posted here b4... ah what the hell...
ChaosLoki
04-06-2006, 07:12 AM
Nope, not at all, it's art!:kakashi:
peacius
04-12-2006, 07:09 PM
from time to time...
BahamutXero
04-17-2006, 03:16 PM
I guess I used to feel a little bit of shame from the stand point of me looking at porn as a 14 year old (I was never discouraged from doing so but it's just how I felt at the time). But as I matured and when my hormones really went into high gear shame never entered into the picture again. It just became me being horny and wanting to watch some hentai and may society's morals be damned. :D
loliconstory
07-18-2006, 12:40 PM
Depends, but most of the time i'm still unsure.:st:
HeavyMetalLucidity
07-18-2006, 01:13 PM
no i dont. initialy there was some nervousness when watching it when i first started but hell ive seen so much porn and hentai now (22yrs old now) that it doesnt bother me.
fatherofmako
07-19-2006, 01:51 AM
i used to but... now my friends know i do and they accept it wholeheartedly.....some of them are also into it.....birds of a feather flock together
reiroy
07-19-2006, 02:37 AM
Never. Okay, maybe for the first and consecutive times but never later. I mean, people are bound to feel ashamed lokking at real porn too right? So no. I will never feel ashamed looking at it. Not anymore since i've grown older...
Thyran
07-19-2006, 03:00 AM
Nope. Never have been and never will be ashamed of looking at any porn.
lotiman2003
07-19-2006, 08:16 AM
Not in front of male friend but maybe a bit in front of female friends
xlsacreddragonlx
07-19-2006, 09:30 AM
Most of the time, yes. Then why am I here? I don't know, to pass the time?
Dark One
07-19-2006, 09:44 AM
What do I think about feeling ashamed at watching hentai? :cool:
First and foremost allow me to ask, what's shame? :confused:
By my understanding shame is a feeling one should fall under when doing something wrong. Are you doing something wrong watching hentai? >:D
Only you can answer this question. ;D
If you're curious my answer to this question would be: A shameless person like me? Get real! :st:
:D :D :D
Jungleboogie
07-19-2006, 10:31 AM
Never, i don't see a reason to be ashamed of in watching hentai or porn :D
tsuchiya
07-19-2006, 08:03 PM
ashamed hah...if i had a dime for every time someone said that. id by microsoft and turn it into a hentai/av studio. that and open a few brothel here and there:D
Lost Cauz
07-21-2006, 09:26 PM
Only when family or (non-hentai) friends are present. Even then, it is more of a thrill than guilt.
So far I've kept a rather good record of watching hentai, EVEN with family in my room, without them knowing:neko:
solarenemy
07-21-2006, 09:27 PM
I only feel ashamed when my mom watches hentai.
Sandwichboy
08-14-2006, 06:19 AM
I used to be somewhat but now since I've realised that a good amount of people everywhere are interested in it I figured 'who cares? to each their own...'
It's strictly a preferential thing, so why and how you deal with it is your own perogative.>:D
stigermorgan
08-14-2006, 11:21 AM
well porn is not a bad things only sometimes it always related to black side of human so enjoy it why u blame urself.maybe if ur religion prohibit it o u got somethings wrong but for me hentai or sex is normal everybody can enjoy it
zenpa
08-14-2006, 12:27 PM
I see about 3 a week, hwillis8 :)
There are people that thinks scketching nude is immoral and shameful act. While, those people are often thinks art is a noble culture. Perversion sometimes comes from ignorance to establish a connection between two facts.
There are beauties for every individuals. And there are infinite variation to express them, actively and passively. If you love, you love it. You proud of your beautiful thing, and nobody can stop you to love. Then, one of your active expression could be to establish a connection between hentai and your friend's 'beautiful thing'.
Enlightenment it may be. The second glass of wine now for me :-)
Your good friends will understand what you think beautiful, so good luck.
ssjkakkaroto
08-14-2006, 12:40 PM
Sometimes whenever I start looking at hentai I feel like i'm doing something wrong :( . What do ya'll think?
ya i had that sometimes too... feeling like im missing the real girls T_T :(
Cheers,
SSJ
solarenemy
08-14-2006, 12:49 PM
If I felt ashamed I wouldnt be here in the first place now would I? If you do feel ashamed it means your probably to young to be viewing the stuff in the first place.
DrakexWestenfluss
08-14-2006, 11:04 PM
No i dont feel shame. I just dont want any of my friends or family to find out.
Parable
08-14-2006, 11:09 PM
When i was younger i felt kinda "dirty" (that may not be the best word for it) for watching hentai but then i met my friend Ami and she had a larger hentai collection by far... hard to feel like your a pervy guy when you have a good looking female friend who likes hentai even more.
defs0ul
08-14-2006, 11:54 PM
I will feel shame if my parents catch me lookin at porn/hentai stuff.
suzuNo
08-15-2006, 12:31 AM
ashamed?......nah
Otase
08-15-2006, 02:41 PM
gess i have some.
Icewarrior
08-18-2006, 04:16 PM
in my opinion if my parents or a girlfriend would catching me looking such animated porn films, it could be that my face getting more an red colour as usual. But i don't have an girlfriend and my parents so far i know never see me looking this naked beautiful drawn pictures, so i am not ashamed @ the moment;)
ShadowRFox
08-18-2006, 04:30 PM
I used to but when I came to Hongfire that all but disappeared since I met so many other hentai lovers
AngelSetzer
08-18-2006, 05:48 PM
Hentai Is Just Art... Sure its Has Many Lewd Acts But Theres Nothing Wrong With It... Its No Worse Than Watching Any Kind of porn
Inuyasha254
08-28-2006, 01:06 AM
I never really got into to it like that.
I wonder how a woman's body works differently from a man's.
Do they hear at a different pitch?
Maybe their hearts beat faster by a ms.
I don't know.
But I have only been ashamed of a few things and this isn't one of them.
Djisas
08-28-2006, 01:30 AM
Nop!!
Never!!
I also introduced some ppl to hentai, and i share a lot of it with the, i have a cousin with the same taste...
But no hardcore!!
Damn i hate hardcores, its so ugly to watch, rape, bondage, futanari, etc...
Only the best looking softcore Hentai's!!
4kaito4
09-27-2006, 03:01 PM
not at all...
ForteAnly
09-27-2006, 03:55 PM
Ashamed at looking at hentai I don't think so. I look for hentai when ever i have a chance. Why be ashamed of hentai when it's so cool and funny. English dub hentai are freakin hilarious. From La Blue Girl "If I don't do something I'm gonna be screwed literally". That's just funny.:kakashi:
FlyingMonkey1992
09-28-2006, 03:42 PM
I feel ashamed all the time XD. Cause everytime I look for it, I'm sure I'll get caught XDDD
lunn1986
09-28-2006, 07:24 PM
a little...if have a girlfriend...feel sorry for my girlfriend..like i did something wrong..don't know why.
jo lu dlr87
09-28-2006, 09:51 PM
Alright, just watching hentai shouldn't be a real problem. There are a lot of good story lines in hentai (especially in h-games). I, on the other hand, do feel ashamed because I do other things while I'm watching hentai. Also, many people around me disapprove and I can't help but feel ashamed for even watching it. It shouldn't matter what others think, but on the other hand sometimes the others are right. I say be proud of watching hentai. I'll be cheering but from a very safe distance.
Kotonoha
09-29-2006, 08:05 AM
I might have felt that way when I first found it, but not any more... unless you count that piece of crap Shitai wo Arau H-anime I downloaded and watched... you... don't... go... and ruin... a great... H-game... like that!
AnimeChickLover
09-29-2006, 05:26 PM
Not at all
Not even for a second
Gerald Ford
09-30-2006, 06:31 AM
The truth is it's wrong and it is shameful.
I hate to be duped into looking at things I'm not actually looking for, especially the more perverted stuff.
Most people are attracted to beauty and cuteness. These things are used by these artists to draw people in and then when you're not expecting it you're reading or looking at something sick.
Some of it is nice, especially the less offensive offerings. The trouble is I know all of it is wrong, even the "innocent" stuff I look at in order to maintain some integrity. I'll even delete offensive images, recompile sets to suit me, before of course wiping my system.
I just hope the limits I place on myself mitigate an unwanted judgement. After all, if I didn't sin, I'd be perfect and if I was perfect I wouldn't be here, but this doesn't mean that I should give myself over to sin.
I can live without sex and without looking at sexually stimulating material. I can and have done so for years at a time. It's just that sometimes for short periods of a few days, something reminds me and I get the urge to look at these things. To be honest with you, it's pleasant but worrying at the same time. Eventually, in say a day or after I feel I've exhausted whatever energy is driving me, I'll delete everything and return to an extended state of abstinence from all forms of weakness.
CarrotLyn
09-30-2006, 10:12 PM
well i dont really feel ashamed .i even look 4 those have same taste as me.at last i managed to know more than 20 people that have same taste as me.i even established a unofficial h-club in school which got around 20 people.some really look like those in to hentai
our club philoshophy is 'Hentai is an art' so that nothing wrong admiring an art
even the artist carved a naked man or lady as art
Hayeate
09-30-2006, 10:20 PM
Not at all, but I think there should be limits to human deviancy. People who cannot restrain themselves are no better than those who can't hold a ****. All you furries, pedos and other sick bastards reading this, better pay attention cause this concerns you.
Gerald Ford
10-01-2006, 03:33 AM
well i dont really feel ashamed .i even look 4 those have same taste as me.at last i managed to know more than 20 people that have same taste as me.i even established a unofficial h-club in school which got around 20 people.some really look like those in to hentai
our club philoshophy is 'Hentai is an art' so that nothing wrong admiring an art
even the artist carved a naked man or lady as art
Did you know that the creator forbade humans from making images?
ToxicTeaBag
10-01-2006, 07:08 AM
for me, hentai is a higher scent of art!
so i don't feel ashamed in any way in looking at it.
i have a hard time figuring out why it should be perverse to look at, compared to regular porn.
Keogamer
10-01-2006, 04:39 PM
The truth is it's wrong and it is shameful.
I hate to be duped into looking at things I'm not actually looking for, especially the more perverted stuff.
Most people are attracted to beauty and cuteness. These things are used by these artists to draw people in and then when you're not expecting it you're reading or looking at something sick.
Some of it is nice, especially the less offensive offerings. The trouble is I know all of it is wrong, even the "innocent" stuff I look at in order to maintain some integrity. I'll even delete offensive images, recompile sets to suit me, before of course wiping my system.
I just hope the limits I place on myself mitigate an unwanted judgement. After all, if I didn't sin, I'd be perfect and if I was perfect I wouldn't be here, but this doesn't mean that I should give myself over to sin.
I can live without sex and without looking at sexually stimulating material. I can and have done so for years at a time. It's just that sometimes for short periods of a few days, something reminds me and I get the urge to look at these things. To be honest with you, it's pleasant but worrying at the same time. Eventually, in say a day or after I feel I've exhausted whatever energy is driving me, I'll delete everything and return to an extended state of abstinence from all forms of weakness.
Thats some what the same with me. Sadley to admit that Im addictive to hentai. I try to restain myself from wraching it, not becuase its bad ( though to an extent it is) but becuase I grew addictive to it.
The fantasy and secanarios are all to much like I imagine how I would had wanted my life to be. But then agian fantasy is not always a good thing ( or rather not good at all).
The other reason why I aslo feel guilty is because hentai, or at least some scenarios involve of ealry age intecourse, sex befor marraig or just simple pleasur ( which in all im againts personally).
But these are personale problems. Im sure no one else feels the same. Im just a pathetic dork who tryng to be a christian and yet at the same time sinning. I lust for hentai and lusting is a sin if any wonder, lust= means to desire something in a greedy manner.
( god im such a hypocrite)
XxcessInAnarchy
10-01-2006, 04:52 PM
I used to....
but im a wee bit okay with it. but i still cant disclose it to my family (since they want me to grow up to be a nice man yeah, right.) but if my friends ask me, i will say that i look at it and i got no problem with it, plain and simple. but not to my folks.
hwillis8
10-01-2006, 08:42 PM
Hentai can be a problem if you can't distingush fantasy from reality. Most people make that comment, but its how you got there that really matters. Fantasy can be a healthy escape from the harsh realities that pervade us, but if we look towards that fantasy as the only means of happiness, eventually that fantasy will spill into reality, and most people even with their own fantasies will be harsh with us because it is a natural human response to express fear and insecurity towards anything that relates to sin or is definitvely wrong through anger and hate, espically if it directly relates to them in some way. We humans are selfish beings because we want to have meaning in life through superiority, and that can be accomplished if we can take away someone else's happiness to make a larger majority happy.
Good scenario: A serial rapist is taken off the streets. He can no longer violate other women, and in jail can slowly reform by knowing the act is wrong. He will go through hell in jail, but if he can get out he could learn from something.
Reality scenario: A kid born in great surroundings with great parents uses masturbation as means to create happiness because he feels unhappiness in every social situation he has experienced. He may be brillant, but he just needs work unearthing his own potential. Problem is, most people can't see past his social flaws. As he escapes more and more in the act of perversion to make himself happier, his outside world becomes a world of fanasty and the rules of reality break down mentality inside him. His sister, once seen as a fun playmate, may now be a manga full of incest. His mom, a source of wisdom and love, may now suddenly be a hot stepmom. After trying to inact a porno he is sent to live with his grandfather to work out his problems. But this steadily increases his need for pleasure. He becomes a rapist, accidentally kills his victim, and goes to jail. Since now the only emotion he has is sexual, any mercy by the jury will be overshadowed by hate for his perversion. An 18 year-old is given the death penality. Most of the sympathy goes to the family of the deceased, so him being young does not matter, just as long as he does not cause pain for anyone ever again. But had his own pain been evaluated, and his social issues been taken care of, he may have been able to give happiness to many people. But the bias rules over human mercy and grace, so he dies. Everyone finds him as a villanous spirit and hopes that hell is merciless.
I'd say that if you center your happiness around it and few other things then your in trouble. Though we can say that sex and looking at porno is healthy, too much of anything is bad for you. Humans are completely based on homeostasis, so just as too many sweets can damage you physically, too much hentai and masturbation can damage you mentality. Not necessarily the hentai is the cause, but the immense social sigmata that stems from it may be it. Humans desire social interaction, it has been the key to our survival. But without it mental problems may occur.
Keogamer
10-02-2006, 07:19 AM
I agree with hwillis8.
XxcessInAnarchy
10-02-2006, 04:49 PM
damn, hwillis8 brought a damn good point.
Hentai = painted pictures = no people involved = no risk the one on the vid or pic is an underpaid hooker who is on the brink of suicide.
Hentai = better than normal prone from a viewpoint full of morale.
I agree jinjin, there seem to be a lot of people these days that say that what we are doing may be disgusting. I don't know if they are right all I know is that it feels right and whether I stopped or continued it wouldn't change the world in some dramatic way.
sleeper417
10-07-2006, 04:46 AM
No because I'm not hurting any one else by doing so. Now, if I were a child molesting, women hitting, murdering rapist SOB on the other hand, I just might have to committ suicide and hope that the Devil will forgive me for committing the lowest of lows.
Errorrrr
10-07-2006, 07:35 PM
I don't watch hentai with anybody else... so yea... I don't feel anything wrong... I mean Hentai is much more "artistic" than porn... I don't really like straight real porn... they are boring and lacks emotion... (like absolutely emotionless...) like in hentai, sometimes sex spur from geunine love... (well of course there are Nightshift Nurse, True Blue etc... True Blue I TRUELY despise... >_> some hentai i just can't stand...)
There are several types of hentai I can't stand at all....
LIke True Blue (NSN is ok..)
Red Lotus (whatever that is, where the girls gets like ripped apart)... that's nasty >_>
yea... no EXTREME VIOLENCE, no EXTREME WARPED mentaility (i.e. true blue), and no extreme nasty crap (the valkyrie hentai is really pushing it, but she's hot...) XD
animus
03-07-2007, 05:24 AM
I watch hentai, and I'm a bit ashamed to be honest. But I thoroughly enjoy it.
I do have a question tho, as I know there're females in this thread that admit to watching it. By hentai I mean, straight sex only non-yuri/yaoi. Do straight females watch it in the same way as the males? Or are the only ones that watch it/enjoy it the ones that are lesbian?
OddDoctor
03-07-2007, 09:54 AM
I'm ashamed of not doing as much as I could to improve the world. I'm also ashamed of not doing as much as I could to improve myself. Ashamed of watching hentai, though? Why would I be ashamed of that? I suppose it's a waste of time that could be better spent, but while I'm ashamed of wasting quite so much time, I don't feel any more ashamed of hentai than any of my other time-sucking activities (like posting to internet message boards :-)).
Bloodtail
03-10-2007, 10:56 PM
I never felt ashamed looking at either porn or hentai, as it's just part of human nature to be either curious about sex, or attracted to sexual activities.
AznStealthMarv
03-30-2007, 10:40 PM
I'm really surprised about majority of so many people on HongFire feel no shame about hentai at all. I'm really happy about how everyone is feeling that way.
Since discovering hentai at a young age, i've gotten far too addicted to it. Since having my experiences in life as getting picked on, shoved away from making friendships and relationships, and being looked down on from many people and classmates who you may define as "average" makes me think that I should be ashamed about hentai.
No one in my entire life I have told I had interest in hentai, but I do feel ashamed to ever have it in the first place for which:
-It is making my life go in a different direction than the "average" individual
-The embarassment, fear, and shame of a person's reaction from which you've been discovered
-The creation of such lust in the mind that can affect all ways of mental thinking
-For how less or of how bad social encounters from the outside world will continue the cycle of seeing hentai to make the person feel much better and happier, therefore escaping the harsh reality, thus escaping into more of fantasy
Perhaps the past actions and experiences a person have had will make a huge impact to them and their thoughts in the future?
boreas
04-13-2007, 08:06 PM
Only when there are other people around :neko:
ForteAnly
04-15-2007, 11:53 AM
I'm not ashamed of watching hentai. Hentai is cool.:kakashi:
KamikazeX
04-15-2007, 12:45 PM
im not ashamed either. good stuff
Haloman
04-15-2007, 12:50 PM
My friends know i´m a huge fan of hentai and I am known for being an Eroge-Otaku, so I dont feel ashamed for being something I am, you just need to be yourself.
Related to watch hentai, sometimes I watch it my busty cousin, but generally alone ( You enjoin more that way :kakashi: :kakashi: )
runetide
04-16-2007, 07:49 AM
Nope, I enjoy art. Disregard that I may become horny because of it. :P
thebigcheese
04-16-2007, 08:28 AM
hehehehe I LOVE LOLI!!!!!!!!!!! ^___^
Nope, albeit I like having my privacy when looking at it.
Hentai = painted pictures = no people involved = no risk the one on the vid or pic is an underpaid hooker who is on the brink of suicide.
Hentai = better than normal prone from a viewpoint full of morale.
Good point.:D :kakashi:
thebigcheese
04-16-2007, 09:18 AM
of course privacy is a must! Hentai pwns pR0N!
Kalimutan
04-17-2007, 10:14 AM
Do I feel ashamed looking at hentai? No, of course not. Why should I be ashamed of doing it? There is nothing wrong with watching fiction using animated characters instead of real people.
iankhu
04-18-2007, 05:08 PM
no its was normal to watch hentai it has been part of our culture and it just anime an art
DarthKavarr
04-18-2007, 05:18 PM
I think hentai are much more..... stimulating.... rather than the real porn
Doom3k
04-18-2007, 06:05 PM
Actually no I'm rather proud (or shameless as my friends say). Even infront of a girl I have absolutely no shame of carrying a bag of ero I just went to go buy or wearing a galge t-shirt, cap or any other goods. I mean this generation everyone loves and pretending not to would just not be my style.
I do admit that infront of serious or business people I would rather they not know though. ^^;
xXXMadWolfxXX
04-24-2007, 10:57 AM
Not ashamed at all.I dont go around screaming that i love Hentai ,but if someone asks or comes to my house i wont try to hide it.I actually feel more ashamed when a friend comments about a hentai title i havent seen.
Cixelsid
04-25-2007, 09:49 AM
Ditto here. What's there to feel ashamed about?
chankoktze
04-25-2007, 09:55 AM
why am i here? of course the answer is here... i want to be here.
kyogezsho
05-06-2007, 03:01 PM
why would we be ashamed of porn or hentai .. if eveyone dont watch .. there will be no jobs or business for many people ... we are proud to watch cause .. we are running the economy ROFL ....
stripes
05-07-2007, 02:08 AM
uhh, to be honest i'm not proud of my H collection.
theblackk
05-07-2007, 02:41 AM
nope, not 1 bit. However, I will feel ashamed if there are some people around.
cartoon secks for the win :p
I don't feel ashamed looking for hentai, I like to find hentai of my favorite characters from non hentai animes
Fuchsin
05-08-2007, 09:04 PM
I do, most of the time. Mostly cos I would want people like my parents to find out. I don't have a problem with hentai, really. It's the type of hentai I like I'm more ashamed of.
kisame
05-09-2007, 03:23 AM
not at all. :)
micky21761
05-09-2007, 04:43 AM
i never felt wrong about its just in the nature you know
some feels it but some doese not!..
IceWolfe
05-09-2007, 01:03 PM
usually not but a little when it comes to furry or incest hentai, but somehow it still makes me hot..
kisame
05-10-2007, 01:35 AM
not even Guru makes me feel bad at all. since it is all fictional, I am okay with any drawing.
alt302
05-15-2007, 04:26 PM
Used to be, but hey, it's become a weekly occurance, more regular during semester breaks and off days from work. The routine has killed the shame
Derray
05-16-2007, 07:10 AM
Hell no, I think its better than sitting there looking at regular porn. I usually look at it when I get bored or I'm just feeling in the mood to look at it.
kisame
05-17-2007, 04:05 PM
Hell no, I think its better than sitting there looking at regular porn. I usually look at it when I get bored or I'm just feeling in the mood to look at it.
like wise. I find hentai much more appealing and fantasy stimulating than boring real life. of course, I eventually watch the real thing every now and then.
superjesus
05-18-2007, 05:47 AM
no i don't and a watch the hardcore stuff, like pissing on people, shit eating and raping bitches. why feel ashamed aboot it? if you feel bad playing a game like lets say "RAPELAY" or watching the av film "Schoolgirl Black Rape Document 5" (yes thats a real av film heres the link http://www.javparadise.com/ps-15695-44-amateur-jkd-005-japanese-adult-video.aspx) then don't watch it. but please for the love of god don't try to get rid of it. if you think it's bad o.k but don't stop it from being made, there is something out there for everyone keep it that way.
Kunnaki
05-23-2007, 01:14 AM
I do feel a bit wrong inside for watching it. But then I realize that I'm not the only person who does. Hey, maybe someone famous looks at it too.
DarthKavarr
05-26-2007, 08:27 AM
there is no guilt watching hentais just as long you truly understand on differing things between reality and non-reality.
Do not perform/try/do/experiment what hentais do because some of them are considered outrageous to near extent .Rapelay and polygon love 2 are good sample. Those hentais depict immorals to the extent on real world (but remember there is no guilt on watching them in your tv:P )! One to rape whole innocent family and the other is fucking your own blood related sister.
DarkSoma838
05-26-2007, 02:03 PM
Almost never, I only find myself discomforted when other people are watching me do so, but I find that to be more of a privacy thing anyway. It is in my mind tantamount to being interested in a specific type of porn or sexual act, such as asian ;D porn or bondage.
NoVeXX
05-26-2007, 03:27 PM
To be honest: no.
I am quite done with the world society, especially the "standarts 4 peoples appearance and behavior" I am not entirely happy with my existence, sine I am a quite ugly guy but I managed so far. I was since my last girlfriend rejected by girls 43 times in a row, so I simply gave up on (real) girls.
I have nothing in common to share with real girls, so I jerk off and watch hentai^^.
I am a forward and candid guy, and stubborn like a tank, if they don't like me, fine I don't need them. im not going to change just to get my hands on a real pussy again. I did it once and it ended in a disaster, so I stic to hentai and porn. Once in a while I have a girl, but unless the day comes you can switch off your girlfriend like I switch off my computer, screw em.
Drolo87
05-29-2007, 05:32 PM
Sometimes. But I keep telling myself that it's just art. ;D
Dirk 111
05-29-2007, 05:37 PM
Nope, I don't see any difference between it and normal porn. And I don't care what others think of my preference, who are they to judge me?
afarinah
05-29-2007, 06:53 PM
Nope not at all :D as long as you do not do on purpose in real life like rape, kill a girl etc and hentai may be given us a better sex lesson than watching porn movie
Psycho Mantis
05-30-2007, 04:18 PM
Sometimes..sometimes i feel as if the characters in the pictures are looking right at me..
hotanime
05-30-2007, 05:41 PM
NO!!! I don't what the big deal. It just anime.
rodillas
05-30-2007, 07:44 PM
Personaly i dont feel any shame in watching hentai. I have been watching hentai since i was about 9 been a long time since i started but never felt any shame doing it well its better then having true sex and getting someone pregnant. And also its a way for me to release my stress :neko:
Shuko
06-05-2007, 05:18 PM
Yes. -_- I feel shame every time I do it...
But I keep doing it. :p
scat53
06-05-2007, 08:44 PM
Its not like I huddle around the screen peering around making sure people arent watchin me, but i aint like, hey mom im gonna watch hentai....where "cartoons" do it. Personally i find most funny cause there way to unreal, but hey thats why I watched the smurfs too.
diotb77
06-06-2007, 01:54 PM
Now i'm not going to pretend to be an expert, but i do feel like commenting on this particular topic.
The reason for feeling bad is because the majority of the worlds societies see Sex as a taboo deed to speak of, or experience it with anyone other than your "partner". I care to protest! Sex, masturbation, visual aids such as Hentai are all great things. Anyone should have the right to please themselves as they see fit. The only thing one must considr is not bothering others with ones own sex-life/fantasies. Thats when it turns in to rape/sexual harrasment or other bad things.
What im trying to say is that, one should be proud of what one likes. naturaly one doesnt have to scream it from rooftops nor shouldnt force others to like it either. But if watshing rape Hentai, or lolita hentai or whatever turns you on then there is nothing wrong in doing so. Just dont force others to like it too.
Sorry, if this post was rather blurry or unclear, its actually my first time posting on a forum Enjoy your body, and enjoy what turns you on! Even.... No, Especially Hentai! (Since thats where any fantasy is possible) ;D
Sturmvogel Prime
06-13-2007, 01:36 AM
I didn't feel shame looking hentai, i consider it as art and not perversion:)
SonicR
06-17-2007, 08:09 PM
nope, it's a form of art although am not fully into any rape scenes in hentai unless the girl is raping the guy then i dont care
solarenemy
06-17-2007, 08:26 PM
If I felt ashamed I wouldnt be in this forum.
slikid86
06-27-2007, 08:52 PM
Yes, I'm ashamed, but I only do it when I'm alone. Rather keep my perversions to myself and away from family knowledge.
cloudninja
06-27-2007, 09:44 PM
I kind of do.
I don't advertise that I watch it, and most of my friends don't think I even do watch porn, and some think I've never watched porn in my life and hate it.
I just watch only what I'm into, though I'm more of a soft core guy. In fact Hentai is the only kind of porn I can watch all the way through now that i think about it. :O The real stuff kind of is hard to get into for me. And I will give them this, some of the stories and scenarios are REALLY interesting that the porn is a plus to a some what decent story.
Oh boy ... that's a little revealing! :lol:
Arkensark
06-28-2007, 12:38 PM
I did when I first got into it but now I feel like it's a lot better than looking at regular pornography and I never feel ashamed of it anymore.
PunkNaru
06-28-2007, 12:50 PM
To be honest, I did when I first started, but when I found out I had friends who enjoyed watching it, I was like "Hey, this isn't so bad"
Now that I am in a steady relationship with someone that I really love, porn/hentai isn't that important anymore.
ReMeDy
06-28-2007, 11:26 PM
Back when I first started, yea, I was a bit nervous. I wouldn't tell anyone. Now I'm actually proud of it (yes, you heard me, proud :D). I now joke with my little bro (who is 18 btw) that he needs to play hentai games and I've openly admitted to some of my buddies in my Counter-Strike: Source clan that I like hentai too. They tease me about it, but I don't care -- they're the ones missing out, not me ;D.
Now that I am in a steady relationship with someone that I really love, porn/hentai isn't that important anymore.
Heh yea right, that's why you're posting on this topic :neko:.
kanova
06-29-2007, 12:56 PM
Like all yall, prolly when i started, but the i realized hentai is just like any other type of entertainment. It's prolly not widely accepted to be legit entertainment and it usually has a bad connotation to boot, but it's like asking if you're ashamed at watching tv or listening to music. HOWEVER, i often keep looking over my shoulder just in case someone happens to walk by just for the reason stated above. Not alot of ppl accept hentai as what it is.
Sartain
06-29-2007, 04:21 PM
Embarrassed? Never!
Why should I? It's just porn, and cartoon porn at that.
No real persons had intercourse during the production of this game/movie
Its not as if I'll go around telling everyone about, much like I don't tell people about my sexlife, but that doesn't mean I'm embarassed, even though I also enjoy some of the more deviant stuff. But hell, who doesn't enjoy a good lolita-schoolgirl romp, eh?
Its fiction, you can do whatever you like, but as with all things it is best in moderation. As long as you don't mistake it for real life, no problem. We're all perverts, those proud enough to stand by it and indulge in their particular little fetishes in a healthy manner that doesn't hurt anyone are just the smart perverts right?
RandomThunder
07-07-2007, 12:24 PM
I have never been ashamed about it at all,I have been looking at hentai since I was pretty young, heck my family even knows what it is and that I like it.
gohasuke
11-06-2007, 01:45 AM
i feel really really good
to me to be a pervert that mean i'm normal
HE HE HE
DarkDweller
11-06-2007, 02:19 AM
Never been ashamed about it so far....heck i love hentai ...playing the games and watching the movies.
Infinity Overlord
11-06-2007, 05:13 AM
Its something that i like/love,im very interested in it,there is no reason to be or feel ashamed.
Ozzy03
11-06-2007, 07:10 AM
^ Ya, should i be ashamed? lol, in my class they call me hentaiboy xD
EchelonV
11-06-2007, 02:03 PM
If I did I wouldn't look at it. :p
SFOHollandMGO
11-06-2007, 02:11 PM
...sometimes...I feel a little ashamed after I look at hentai...but then again who cares...this is the only place I express that side of myself...
I'm not ashamed. Although, I feel weird because it's as if I prefer hentai over actual real porn.
Ooame
11-07-2007, 01:43 AM
I don't feel ashamed as such, but i wouldn't bring it up as a dinner conversation. Like i wouldn't with regular porn.
PimplyPete
11-15-2007, 12:02 AM
Think of it as a hobby, everyone has a few.
Some go Hunting.
Some go Fishing.
Some go Sky Diving.
Some go Skiing.
We, look at Hentai and(or) Porn, it's our hobby, and anyone who doesn't like it can go suck a lemon.:st:
Infinity Overlord
11-15-2007, 12:36 AM
Well im not ashamed but i prefer not to let people know,i keep things to myself^^
Garuga
11-15-2007, 01:34 AM
Why should I?
It's something i watch,simple as that.
DarthNeko
11-17-2007, 02:51 PM
I'm as ashamed as my co-workers. The bastards stuck guro-rape pic in my work locker, in the break room! Luckily, I removed it before the manager saw it. However, they do have camera's in there...
Vengeance
11-29-2007, 05:00 PM
No shame here looking at what I like to called a form of art. An incredibly sexy type of art.
AndyDS
12-02-2007, 08:21 PM
Shame? No, like said before, Hentai is a form of art and it is not even close to reality. It is relaxing in some way.
DojoFreak
12-02-2007, 08:29 PM
Its very therapeutic :D...I recently introduced my gf to it and she suddenly appears more relaxed XD