This is SERIOUSLY messed up >_<

[Duckz0r]

Ok, i'm all gonna tell you a seriously messed up story. Well not really messed up but more like... OMGWTF...

Ok let me begin,

Last year, Chrismas... I was playing some Ragnarok Online because it was too cold to go away from my house. This was the Period a private server AckRO was still up, With some weird luck i met a guy with who i used to play iRO. He got me into his guild and we played a few weeks. I tought it was time to know the guild members... And there was this girl, she was very very VERY sweet. I played with her alot we used to team and fight MVP bosses and such. Not much interesting happend till one day she asked me my MSN adress.. Well i was happy to give it to her since she was a really good friend of mine. So she added me... And then after a few days.. We began to tell each other lotsa things... Like our ages, where you are from... etc etc... When she told her age i was like... omg... it was a 14 year old asian girl who lived in Canada. A few months later we began to talk about different subjects. I think i accidently fell in love with her and she also did with me. After a while i had to courage to ask a picture, she gave me one and she was damn hot... Lotsa pictures followed. I couldnt send any of mine since i didnt have a webcam nor a scanner. Yes my dear readers... i fell in love with a 14 year old girl, unknowing that she was the type that would do anything to see me. So she promised me she would come to holland sometime.... At first i tought she was kidding. So i left her talking and such. We talked alot during the few months of december till summer last year. Untill one day... (i still dont know who this ****er is but ok) Someone signed into my MSN while i was asleep. And he claimed that he was my cousin. Reporting to some friends that i died in a shootout. A day after, i signed in again (yes i didnt feel like Gaming, replying or anything) i got like TONS of messages like... OMG YOU ARE ALIVE!? and i was like... Woah.... People began to tell me the story of what happend... and i was like wtf...? I directly clicked on the Girl's MSN adress to see if she was ok. But i got her Brother on the chat. He said she flippend and ran away from home and went living with her friends (she told me also that she had trouble at home, so there was enough reason to run away). I didnt see that coming i thought. I became heartbroken after a while. She didnt contact me nor Message me. One day i saw her signed in. I was like extremely happy, but it was her brother again... Telling me that she was ok.. And thats all. I was sort of relieved and sort of dissapointed and sad.

Months grew by, new things were born.. It was already 10th of April of the year 2005 when i last checked... I got a message in e-mail... And with the name of that very same girl. It said : Surprise!

I quickly clicked it and it said this : I am coming to holland in 4-6 more months! isnt that great?!

My heart skipped a beat. My mouth fell open and my eyes were staring at the words *coming to holland*. I was extremely happy and on the other side also very afraid. What could she possibly wanna do here? Why did she leave me alone and later come with something else?! i was so confused and i am telling this right now on HongFire...

I dont really know.. But i am very nervous, afraid and yet happy.... I just cant see myself with a 14/15 year old girl... And whats more... The e-mail said she would come Alone. So no parents, it was like the parents agreed with her that i would take care of her and just gave her money to come crash here....

If you read this thanks very much... i am sort of relieved and a bit frustrated too...

YoursTruly

Duckz0r

[The10th]

i agree with chichio telling your parent would be out of the question,
get this straighten out, is she staying or visiting, and so do i wish u good luck
*nice guy pose*

[Chichio]

Hmm...I do not really know what to say, but I think first of all you should get your feelings together. And try to stay calm and think about this calmly. Is she coming for visit? Or is she planning to stay? If she is planning to stay, it might become difficult, if you do not live alone. And I guess telling your parents about this is out of question, right?

I really wish everything will be fine and I wish you lots of luck. But saying this out loudly, helps. As you probably can feel already, that you are feeling calmer...

And I really have respect for people who can say things like that out loudly...

[Knifes]

so.. you like what... 18? ...there's not that big of an age difference compared to my and some of my friends parents. But my suggestion is to get back and talking more often with her. I mean have some contact with her for the time lost :)

other than.. don't screw up her life while she's there (you know what I mean ;)) and enjoy your newfound girlfriend. And did her parents really trust her to you?! :eek: man... are you sure of that.. I mean... that's strange from a parents POV.... but make sure you have the necessary arrangements/main points done beforehand...

and oh yeah.. good luck.. trust me, you'll need it ;)

[AyaNeko]

if you are still living with your parents....then you have to tell them, esspecialy ask if she can stay with you for a while until things calm down and the situation is clear. then you can plan the next steps wether to contact her parents and tell her to go home, or stay there with you in holland.
but first of all its just as Chichio said, sort out your feelings...

well...IMO this is a joke, my last inet relationship was a joke, i fell in love with a guy and since then ive had enough of inet relationships...and from my experience, i think she is just telling some random things, and you got false pics, and she is simply lying about being 14 and so on...

but since i dont even know her, i have no right to say stuff like that....
good luck though...

[Svenddv]

man.. that was a heart pouncing story.. i dont think simple things like age to be considerd an obstacle in the ways of love (that i just write that?). U should go for it and never turn back, have some selfasteam. (ik wens je veel succes en geluk! ;))

[zerebubuth]

nee, je moet lol hebben en daarna kan je haar terugsturen. ze is wel erg jong maar als ze mooi is maakt dat natuurlijk niet uit.

veel geluk

[Shybal Noom]

lol
ive seen worse, like my friend (who is 19) was dating this freshmen at our school for like... 3 months(note: age difference, 19-14) S~O it should be alright, but her parents are just letting her GO to holland byherself?!!!! god, i wish my parent would let me go to Europe by myself, then again, who would watch me tiny ones...
lol
anyways... i think you should CALM DOWN its like what? 4-5 months away... so you gots time to think. plus, dont get your hopes TOO high. if you gots the guts to see her, then i think everything will be fine, not sure if your long distance relation will work though...

-2 lol's in this post-

[Omega-Poot]

Well, if my math is correct, you where 16 at the time, and you're about, what, 17 1/2 now? I can live with you hooking up with a 15 y/o, but still, a girl not even old enough to drive yet, coming to Holland alone, and throwing herself on the hospitality of someone she's never actually met before? I'm skeptical, especially if her parents ok'ed it.

Also, unless you actually see her on a webcam, or or she gives you a more... "personal" picture, shall we say ('sup Duckzor written on her hand, etc.), you really have 0 garauntee she's even who she says she is, but that's the internet for ya. Hell, she doesn't know you are who you say you are... we don't know either.

Quite a conundrum, not?

My advice; stay in touch, but don't emphasize the trip. You MUST clear this by your 'rents. They pay for your food, rent, etc., so they DO have final say over who is and is not allowed to stay in their house. Also, do not go to meet her alone. Tell her you won't be alone. If she bugs out after that, then there's something suspicious about it, and you where probably better off anyway.

[Duckz0r]

Well, if my math is correct, you where 16 at the time, and you're about, what, 17 1/2 now? I can live with you hooking up with a 15 y/o, but still, a girl not even old enough to drive yet, coming to Holland alone, and throwing herself on the hospitality of someone she's never actually met before? I'm skeptical, especially if her parents ok'ed it.

Also, unless you actually see her on a webcam, or or she gives you a more... "personal" picture, shall we say ('sup Duckzor written on her hand, etc.), you really have 0 garauntee she's even who she says she is, but that's the internet for ya. Hell, she doesn't know you are who you say you are... we don't know either.

Quite a conundrum, not?

My advice; stay in touch, but don't emphasize the trip. You MUST clear this by your 'rents. They pay for your food, rent, etc., so they DO have final say over who is and is not allowed to stay in their house. Also, do not go to meet her alone. Tell her you won't be alone. If she bugs out after that, then there's something suspicious about it, and you where probably better off anyway.

Well... The pictures she gave me had a real date on it... And litteraly had her brother on it... Which she also gave me 4 pictures of... and she gave me like 20 of herself... and a few Family photo's

if thats not good enough for you then i dont know... O_o

for the rest that is supporting me... thanks :)

[Unit1Evangelion]

i would talk to her over the phone before anythign happens. on top of that run this by your parents....BUT DON"T MENTION YOUR IN LOVE WITH HER! just say she is a friend that you have know for a long time and she wants to visit you. if you say you just met her a few months back and your in love they will definatly say no.

the one thing you need to not do......is to put all your hopes into this. cause if it falls through you will be tore up and you will experience chronic depression(based on knowing you feelings that you mentioned). just act like this is a family member coming to visit. but i wish you luck. ^_^

[Duckz0r]

I talked to my parents yesterday at night.... Well, they seemed to have a huge problem against it. They said they will come back at me tommorow (today). WEll guys... i'm about to enter a huge hell... wish me luck T_T

Yours Truly

Duckz0r

*Quack*

[Paranoia]

What? Like 2-3 years between you? That's about the same age difference as it it between my parents. No big deal. In fact, it's quite usual.
Can't really see why your parents should oppose it.

Good luck anyways...

[pow155]

i wish you luck as well. but based on a parents view, "i won't let a stranger that my child know over the internet stay at my house. " anyway good luck with your parents and her

[Nameless Chibi Neko]

Good luck! I'm rooting for you!

~nyan!~

[blndng]

dude...is this some bs story??? :confused:
also, a hot girl who plays ragnarok online?? that's hard to swallow.


...well, if not...i suggest u ask for her phone number and have a nice long talk with her parents(however expensive the long distance call may be) to get everything straight, mainly to ask did they really give their teenage daughter permission to take a trip across the Atlantic Ocean ALONE to meet someone ONLINE??? :eek:

and i just saw You've Got Mail yesterday too... =/

[Goku33]

:eek: your like what 17? hot 15 year old parents long trip that all dont fit together verey well never talked on the phone? only internet? odd

[Duckz0r]

dude...is this some bs story??? :confused:
also, a hot girl who plays ragnarok online?? that's hard to swallow.


...well, if not...i suggest u ask for her phone number and have a nice long talk with her parents(however expensive the long distance call may be) to get everything straight, mainly to ask did they really give their teenage daughter permission to take a trip across the Atlantic Ocean ALONE to meet someone ONLINE??? :eek:

and i just saw You've Got Mail yesterday too... =/

I was thinking about that too... but unfortunatly she never comes online and only send me that e-mail yesterday... so i dunno how long it will take to get a reply...

I am seriously thinking to some solution to get a compromise with my parents... So yeah.. its kind of hard >.<

[Svenddv]

dude.. if ya need room.. u can crash at my place (echoes: hellooo!!).. enuf space here :D

[mahouneko]

So you got this email from her and that was the last time either of you talked with each other? It's best not to get your hopes up until you've sorted out whether she's really flying to Holland or if it was someone else who sent you that email. Considering that you yourself experienced a situation where your MSN was compromised, I wouldn't be suprised if people pull off that sort of prank.

[Duckz0r]

Well... i just talked to my parents about it. They didn't take it too lighty and started yelling at me for no reason...

They told me she can come... But she is definatly NOT staying in our house. So yeah... but i told them she is coming alone and they will not accept it anyways... they told me she can come. but she has to stay at a hotel... WITH her parents...

So well.. They told me i also need to find out a bit more... So i sent an e-mail and wait for her reply... I asked for her phonenumber and a new photo of her...

Now all i have to do is hope T_T

YoursTruly

Duckz0r

*Quack*

[Maria Renard]

my...mmhh... duckie...

maybe you could give us a bit more of info to make an overview of this ^^U, because it sees very interesting, and maybe whe could give you an idea or 2 ;)

thank you for sharing :)

Gao~!

[Blade Runner]

I say just let her come and see what happens. That's probably what it's going to come down to anyways. Take it easy. :)

[Kerii]

Well, if my math is correct, you where 16 at the time, and you're about, what, 17 1/2 now? I can live with you hooking up with a 15 y/o, but still, a girl not even old enough to drive yet, coming to Holland alone, and throwing herself on the hospitality of someone she's never actually met before? I'm skeptical, especially if her parents ok'ed it.

Also, unless you actually see her on a webcam, or or she gives you a more... "personal" picture, shall we say ('sup Duckzor written on her hand, etc.), you really have 0 garauntee she's even who she says she is, but that's the internet for ya. Hell, she doesn't know you are who you say you are... we don't know either.

Quite a conundrum, not?

My advice; stay in touch, but don't emphasize the trip. You MUST clear this by your 'rents. They pay for your food, rent, etc., so they DO have final say over who is and is not allowed to stay in their house. Also, do not go to meet her alone. Tell her you won't be alone. If she bugs out after that, then there's something suspicious about it, and you where probably better off anyway.I'm with Omega on this one.

Don't go and get yourself Shanghai'd by some balding 40-year old slave trader with an eyepatch. :p :D

They like kids from what I hear, but not for the same reasons you usually get from babysitters. :p :D :D :D

A slave sells for quite a lot of money these days now that they're outlawed in almost every country. It just means the slave traders work more secretively, and more deceptively, often using the internet as the primary mode of communication so as to provide a clean getaway in case anything goes sour.

Just be safe. :p :D

[Mai Tokiha]

Hey, be happy about your damn luck! :D
So what if she's only 14? If you love her, then age difference doesn't matter! :)

[Kouji]

I feel the same way as Mai does.

Just be Just be nice & Treat her kind, she'll love you even more then.

Ps. after can you update us on how things went??.

[chief977]

Yea, let us know how it turns out. This is interesting. You're lucky! :)

[hkey]

Honestly, work this out with your parents. Good luck man, have fun :) Learn more about her, etc, like you would in real life.

Meeting your girl friend online wouldn't exactly be the thing for me, but hey, I can see myself using it if so help me god I screw up in life, reallly really bad. Or I totally go shy. And I have a girl friend now, so none of it really matters, yet ;) but my folks would flipsh!t if I told them the story you posted... I can see it now.

Me: "So... uh... yeah. That's how it's going to go."

*four minutes pass*




*que crickets in background*

Parents: "....son, please tell me you were high when you did this. PLEASE TELL ME YOU ARE ON DRUGS!!!"

:D I can see this happen so easily XD lol

[Akarui Kibuno]

Well, if that story is all true, I'm just going to say good luck to you.

However.

The oddnesses of it all:

1) The girl doesn't contact you or e-mail you for months and then decides all of a sudden to come and see you without asking you if she can stay with you. The way you said it, it's like "Oh I'll come and I'll say in your house thaaaaaanks" as if it was all decided. Then I completely agree and understand your parents, because I'm not going to let someone come to my house just because they decided it, they should always ask first before even making the project or buying the plane ticket :) .

2) The girl seems to have said she'd come alone. OK. I'm French. I went to the U.S when I was 18 for the first time so I was of age in France but not in NYC. I was to meet a friend and stay with her. We arranged things, I knew I could go, my mom was afraid but it was all great in the end. *I already spoke enough English at the time to be able to stay there on my own anyway* But I was 18... and the girl you're speaking of is 14. There is no way a responsible parent would let her go to Europe alone to see a guy, unless she told them some bull**** about what went on with you, because, hey, that's a pretty huge ocean between you :) .

I'm not saying the whole thing is crap, but it could be. If someone was capable to pretend you were dead (you did smack the hell out of that person right ? ) , I'm sure someone would pretend she'd come. Especially coming like this, it's so weird... you know, if she has a webcam, even if you don't have one, just ask her to come on and show you her "live" picture and compare with the ones you've got and all, and then, if long distance calls is a problem, use the Skype software, it's really nice (you have a contacts list, you can talk to people from computer to computer and it's free).

I hope it turns out allright for you. That, and when she comes, yeah, don't be alone, cause even if you're old enough, no one knows for sure... :)

[daiakuji]

Duckz0rz:
After analyzing the situation a bit, I agree with both parties on this issue but I'm leaning towards the skeptics.
Anyways, some thoughts
1) There may have been a slight possibility that she was not online during that period where the person hacked your account. So her running away could have led to a domestic dispute. Totally unrelated to your incident. But if she was...I can understand she might think "international crush dead, bad at home, time to run".

2) What I don't get is the "Months passed by". If I was really infatuated with someone who I heard was dead, then told he/she was alive again...first thing I'd do is jump online and talk/email this person myself and say what I feel before something actually does happen. The "couple of months" break is another highlight which makes things weird..

3) There's a possibility that she used those months to work and save up a ticket. Exhausted from work and school, she may not have time to come online to chat to you. Possibly wanted to suprise you with this notion.

4) Sadly, I would have to question her state of mind... If she does go over, she might try to force herself into your family and your life. From what you're saying, you think that she might actually do anything for you. At first things might go well, but what happens if things go wrong? What if by the time she comes, you've fallen for someone else? And what if that "trip" to holland is one way and she's not going back? You might be stuck with some emotional baggage that won't leave your side and might possibly threaten you with suicide. That's worse because you can't turn your back without the thought that she might die at any given time and make it seem like it's your fault.

That's my analysis on the situation..and frankly, 3 outcomes will happen:
1) She won't come at all
2) She'll come, you'll both fall in love and elope together or something with a happy ending
3) She'll come and turn your world upside down, inside out and who knows what else. Worst case scenario? She stays. If you're lucky she might give up and leave for home.

My advice to you would be: Steel yourself for now.
If she turns back on her words and leaves you with just that message, don't worry bout it. Even if she does come, how are you gonna find her with just that one message? She doesn't know where you are.
If she doesn't come, you can breathe a sigh of relieve and move on.
If and when she comes, try to prepare yourself emotionally for whatever may possibly happen...somehow..anyhow..just prepare for the worse, so if it turns out good, you won't have to worry.

Whether you read and think bout what we, the HF community, say to you and think about what we say is completely upto you. I believe that those who post constructively and supportively are hoping for the best for you.

Duckz0rz, I really hope for your sake that she does mail back and she explains what she's trying to do. I also hope that when you two meet up, you'll find your happy ending somehow.
All the best...and stay strong

[Duckz0r]

Duckz0rz:
After analyzing the situation a bit, I agree with both parties on this issue but I'm leaning towards the skeptics.
Anyways, some thoughts
1) There may have been a slight possibility that she was not online during that period where the person hacked your account. So her running away could have led to a domestic dispute. Totally unrelated to your incident. But if she was...I can understand she might think "international crush dead, bad at home, time to run".

2) What I don't get is the "Months passed by". If I was really infatuated with someone who I heard was dead, then told he/she was alive again...first thing I'd do is jump online and talk/email this person myself and say what I feel before something actually does happen. The "couple of months" break is another highlight which makes things weird..

3) There's a possibility that she used those months to work and save up a ticket. Exhausted from work and school, she may not have time to come online to chat to you. Possibly wanted to suprise you with this notion.

4) Sadly, I would have to question her state of mind... If she does go over, she might try to force herself into your family and your life. From what you're saying, you think that she might actually do anything for you. At first things might go well, but what happens if things go wrong? What if by the time she comes, you've fallen for someone else? And what if that "trip" to holland is one way and she's not going back? You might be stuck with some emotional baggage that won't leave your side and might possibly threaten you with suicide. That's worse because you can't turn your back without the thought that she might die at any given time and make it seem like it's your fault.

That's my analysis on the situation..and frankly, 3 outcomes will happen:
1) She won't come at all
2) She'll come, you'll both fall in love and elope together or something with a happy ending
3) She'll come and turn your world upside down, inside out and who knows what else. Worst case scenario? She stays. If you're lucky she might give up and leave for home.

My advice to you would be: Steel yourself for now.
If she turns back on her words and leaves you with just that message, don't worry bout it. Even if she does come, how are you gonna find her with just that one message? She doesn't know where you are.
If she doesn't come, you can breathe a sigh of relieve and move on.
If and when she comes, try to prepare yourself emotionally for whatever may possibly happen...somehow..anyhow..just prepare for the worse, so if it turns out good, you won't have to worry.

Whether you read and think bout what we, the HF community, say to you and think about what we say is completely upto you. I believe that those who post constructively and supportively are hoping for the best for you.

Duckz0rz, I really hope for your sake that she does mail back and she explains what she's trying to do. I also hope that when you two meet up, you'll find your happy ending somehow.
All the best...and stay strong


Well you do have a point somewhere... i think i can somehow take your post as a good example on how to do everything and i feel stronger with your words my friend :)


my...mmhh... duckie...

maybe you could give us a bit more of info to make an overview of this ^^U, because it sees very interesting, and maybe whe could give you an idea or 2

thank you for sharing

Gao~!

I wish i could, i am still kinda confused myself... so just read on in the topic i will update when something happens


I feel the same way as Mai does.

Just be Just be nice & Treat her kind, she'll love you even more then.

Ps. after can you update us on how things went??.

Will try, i hope i can....


Yea, let us know how it turns out. This is interesting. You're lucky!:)

Well... Lucky? maybe.... but i think this is the most weirdest scenario i have ever faced in my entire life

Yours Truly

Duckz0r

*Quack*

[Maria Renard]

ok let

[Nameless Chibi Neko]

Yeah. Please keep us updated. I'd love to see how this turns out! <3

~nyan!~

[hyde69]

did you got to married her in RO?
i would like to see whats the end of this love story also. ^^
i didnt took the time too read everything but if you already legal age you should turn her back as soon as she get to you. and work thing out by talking to her parents, she problably trying to run away with out telling them. thats if you dont want to get in to serious problems... :)

[dots]

ducky... i'll support u all the way...
the age difference is nothing...
but i can understand why your parents feel this way...
after all tt the parent metality...
but then your story realli sounds like some kinda anime
storyline and it's realli romantic in a way...
a gal coming all the way to find a fren she has nv met

[redemption]

one advice I could give you from someone who has somewhat of a similar experience, is not to really get your hopes up, you have to remember that the gap isn't only in your age but in the distance too, could you really be in love with someone you havent spent a second together PHYSICALLY? I know people will say that that doesn't matter but in fact it does, 2 people can talk to each other for a long time then meet and find out that they aren't in love after all. Also i doubt that her parents gave her permission to go flying to holland by herself and remember she did run away from home. Theres a possibility that she might really stay in Holland just because of you, and if she does you really have to think about her welfare. You have to think where she's going to stay and how you or her going to keep her alive and well. To be honest your too young to deal with something like this and you should think about the future ahead, not only as far as her getting her getting there but way head of that. Good luck man I know how it feels to have a long distance gf I've had mine for almost 4 years now and its not as far as US to Holland, mine is only NYC to Montreal and our age gap is pretty big too, I'm 21 and she's turning 16, I've only meet her about 3x in the entire time we've been together.

[Michel000]

damn
wat heb jij een geluk zeg :D
op je luie gat zitten en dan tegen een vriendin aanlope :eek:
have fun :p
;) ;)

[Duckz0r]

Thanks again to everyone that is willing to support me. I really apreciate it


one advice I could give you from someone who has somewhat of a similar experience, is not to really get your hopes up, you have to remember that the gap isn't only in your age but in the distance too, could you really be in love with someone you havent spent a second together PHYSICALLY? I know people will say that that doesn't matter but in fact it does, 2 people can talk to each other for a long time then meet and find out that they aren't in love after all. Also i doubt that her parents gave her permission to go flying to holland by herself and remember she did run away from home. Theres a possibility that she might really stay in Holland just because of you, and if she does you really have to think about her welfare. You have to think where she's going to stay and how you or her going to keep her alive and well. To be honest your too young to deal with something like this and you should think about the future ahead, not only as far as her getting her getting there but way head of that. Good luck man I know how it feels to have a long distance gf I've had mine for almost 4 years now and its not as far as US to Holland, mine is only NYC to Montreal and our age gap is pretty big too, I'm 21 and she's turning 16, I've only meet her about 3x in the entire time we've been together.

Thanks for sharing the info... Hopfully it will turn different....

Yours Truly

Duckz0r

*Quack*

[Blade Runner]

Good luck man I know how it feels to have a long distance gf I've had mine for almost 4 years now and its not as far as US to Holland, mine is only NYC to Montreal and our age gap is pretty big too, I'm 21 and she's turning 16, I've only meet her about 3x in the entire time we've been together.

She was your girlfriend since she was 11 and you were 17? Wow :eek:

[redemption]

lol my bad I just remembered she had her sweet 16 party last year >.>... so yeah shes turning 17 this year. Btw the first time I've meet her she was under false identity until she told me the truth about a year or so later.

[Blade Runner]

Oh, well that is more understandable.

[punkfairy]

not messed up, i mean, what your cousin did was messed up, but its cool how she wants to see u and stuff, and the fact that she really cares about you, thats sweet ^_^
when i read the bit about what your cousin did i thought **omg did she kill herself or something?** cuz that happend to a freind of mines girlfreind, he went off to england for school for like a year and she got really depressed and killed herself....
but its good that your freind diddnt ***lets hope it isnt micheal jackson!*** lol....

[Duckz0r]

hmm. I had some real bad problems with Inet relationships before. People can be different online then they are in real life, and it's easy to lie about who you are on the internet, and your story is a bit odd...

I hope that everything turns out okay for you duckz0r, i really do. but it sounds that, even if she's tellin the truth it will be incredibly complicated. Did she just announce to you that she was coming to Holland to see you, without even asking?

....strange

but i still wish you the best and would be interested in seeing how this turns out. If you have anymore problems everybody's here to help... :D

Thanks Haru... appreciate that...

[exiledninja]

dude, i hope the best for ya,
but!! what if this is just some perverted man!! or her brother is the person that you fell in love with and is just showing you pictures of his sister!!(maybe) LOL
but yea you should find out more info before you let her/him (lmao) know you exact location..
good luck...

[Haruharu Haruko]

hmm. I had some real bad problems with Inet relationships before. People can be different online then they are in real life, and it's easy to lie about who you are on the internet, and your story is a bit odd...

I hope that everything turns out okay for you duckz0r, i really do. but it sounds that, even if she's tellin the truth it will be incredibly complicated. Did she just announce to you that she was coming to Holland to see you, without even asking?

....strange

but i still wish you the best and would be interested in seeing how this turns out. If you have anymore problems everybody's here to help... :D

[Nameless Chibi Neko]

That's pretty cool, Duckz0r! I'm glad you'll have the chance to meet her in real life!

~nyan!~

[Duckz0r]

i got a reply from her today.... And with something very interesting i'd want to share.... I understood her wrong... And now its a very weird story atm... She said not coming with her parents.... But she is coming with someone adult.... That mainly is her teachers... She is coming on a school trip to holland to visit the Anex of Anne Frank (some jewish girl that was here in WWII) she will stay here for a little week... Sorta relieved now i have more info...

She said she will consider the Phonenumber thing with the people that are taking care of her.

Just an update.... thanks for reading :)

[Haruharu Haruko]

so she's probably just coming to visit you for a short time if she can. She most likely won't even be able to come to your house for long, if her teachers let her at all that is....

I bet you're relieved though, the story seems to make more sense now though. I think it would be nice for you two to meet, even if it is only for a short time...

I wish you all the best, and keep us updated on the situation. :p

[oink37]

i am certainly NOT gonna do 'it' with her... unless she asks me too *halo above head*
You look really full of determination... :D

[Duckz0r]

so she's probably just coming to visit you for a short time if she can. She most likely won't even be able to come to your house for long, if her teachers let her at all that is....

I bet you're relieved though, the story seems to make more sense now though. I think it would be nice for you two to meet, even if it is only for a short time...

I wish you all the best, and keep us updated on the situation. :p

ehehe... yeah really relieved... since i talked to my parents and boy i'd never seen them this pissed :P. But awh well... She is coming here in a few... so i'd be glad to recieve her with open arms... Just don't go thinking all ecchi about me since she is still 15 years old... i am certainly NOT gonna do 'it' with her... unless she asks me too *halo above head*

[punkfairy]

lol i can see it now:
girl: ooh HI!
duckz0r: *pounce*
other girl: err, wrong person....

XD j/k hope it all goes well ^^

[daiakuji]

Duckz0rz: Have you been able to talk to her more on msn? If so, then that's great because you can get back to where you guys were before that incident.
I'm happy that you got a reply from her and I hope that everything works out.
At worst, it'd be a just friends thing..at best..keep that halo up ;)

All the best to you Duckz0rz

[Duckz0r]

Duckz0rz: Have you been able to talk to her more on msn? If so, then that's great because you can get back to where you guys were before that incident.
I'm happy that you got a reply from her and I hope that everything works out.
At worst, it'd be a just friends thing..at best..keep that halo up ;)

All the best to you Duckz0rz

Not MSN... Just mails... i hope to get another reply from her soon... i need to discuss some things on the phone and such... and thanks for supporting me... again :)

[Duckz0r]

I just got a reply with her phonenumber from the house she is living in. (this was almost a week ago) i just talked to her yesterday through a phonehouse since i dont have a phone at the moment. She sounded like a really nice girl and she kept saying this nice stuff to me. I really know she is a real girl now.... Now just for some more info on the traveling.

Some other news... As most of you noticed i am not as much online like i used to be... i moved to an other house and i will get my internet back @ 20 may. Please look forward to new posts from me :P

Yours Truly

Duckz0r

*Quack*

[Nameless Chibi Neko]

I just got a reply with her phonenumber from the house she is living in. (this was almost a week ago) i just talked to her yesterday through a phonehouse since i dont have a phone at the moment. She sounded like a really nice girl and she kept saying this nice stuff to me. I really know she is a real girl now.... Now just for some more info on the traveling.

Some other news... As most of you noticed i am not as much online like i used to be... i moved to an other house and i will get my internet back @ 20 may. Please look forward to new posts from me :P

Yours Truly

Duckz0r

*Quack*That's awesome! I hope things go well between you and her, Duckz0r! ^^

~nyan!~

[Duckz0r]

since everybody is wondering what happened (i got lots of pm's in the IRC channel) ok here goes, i know this is a VERY old thread, most of you followed it, but never got too read the ending, she was here alright, for a little week, and she did not come with parents at all, but with her whole class, they were gonna do some research on the jews that all died here, and anne frank, if you know who that is. We shared a great time, and we even got as far as sleeping together in her hotel room (i got kicked out by her teacher that day) but neways we had loads of fun. We write each other trough mail now, since she cut off her internet and we talk trough phone often too, she is coming back when she's 18, maybe permanently, so... i was happy

Thanks for reading the ending chapter and supporting me in hard times.

Yours Truly

Duckz0r

[Gu35s]

simple advice? stop downloading hentais. still chat on the forum but don't tease urself :) then you can wait till she's 18. see other girls but put distance and await ur love to comeback.

*i just felt my hair raised when i typed that . iish*

... or in the other hand. download loads of hentai, coop up in your room and dont meet other girls till she comes back :p which ever you prefer.

btw when u mean sleep in her hotel room. u mean just that litterally right?

[june86]

:D OMG thats was some crazy s***t there man i can totally relate to ya in a way.
my bud/roommate had the same stuff happing an all i mean met girlfreind in IRO
talked and then fell in love yada yada visted each other and stuff.
his family totally were against it to beganing to end its funny stuff i tell ya.

[Duckz0r]

simple advice? stop downloading hentais. still chat on the forum but don't tease urself :) then you can wait till she's 18. see other girls but put distance and await ur love to comeback.

*i just felt my hair raised when i typed that . iish*

... or in the other hand. download loads of hentai, coop up in your room and dont meet other girls till she comes back :p which ever you prefer.

btw when u mean sleep in her hotel room. u mean just that litterally right?

hehe, thanks for the advice, but myeah, it was all cool, and ohyeah, imagine your own thing when i said "Sleeping with her" cause i don't really know how people are gonna react on a half hentai community.

Yours Truly

Duckz0r

[Gu35s]

haha. believe it or not. i am only active on the underground thread. haven't download hentai for a while since my pc blew up. my mac can't handle wmv3 encoding so I can't watch even if I download anyway.

But of course since this is a half hentai community that I am curious if you bring your hentai side to reality with your .. 15? yrs old girlfriend... or should I say greatest-fan at the moment? :D